Humbabwe

Family History

From a Viking farmstead to Fairfield County.

The Humby and Donahue families: a Lincolnshire surname, an English immigrant in Brooklyn, a B-29 pilot who walked out of occupied China, a WWI engineer, a WWII field hospital sergeant, and a grandmother who lived her whole life in Stamford.

A work in progress. Everything here is drawn from public records, obituaries and family photos, with sources linked. Living family members appear by first name only.

The Humby side

Hound's House

Humby means Hundi's farmstead. It comes from a Viking-age settlement in Lincolnshire, England, named after a Norse settler.

  • Hundi was an Old Norse personal name that began as a nickname from hundr, "dog," the same root as English hound.
  • -by is Old Norse bý, "farmstead" or "village," the classic mark of Danish settlement in eastern England, as in Grimsby, Derby and Whitby.
  • Two possible source villages: Great and Little Humby near Grantham, recorded as Humbi in the Domesday Book of 1086; and Hanby near Welton le Marsh, recorded as both Hundebi and Humbi.
  • The surname means a family came from one of these villages, not that it descends from Hundi himself.
  • Earliest recorded bearer: Margarette Humby, who married William Greswell on September 20, 1586, at Stroxton, Lincolnshire.
  • How rare: 548 Humbys in England's 1881 census, and about 841 in the UK today.
Arthur Charles Humby1886–1967 · England → Brooklyn
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Julia Hynesc. 1884–1942
Kathleen Humby Duddyb. c. 1917
Arthur John "Art" Humby1919–2012 · B-29 pilot
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Bette O'Connell1917–2006
Patricia
Betsy
Jeannie
Arthur "Rusty" Humby1953–2021 · married Karen
Joseph

Great-grandfather

Arthur Charles Humby

Born May 19, 1886, England · Died June 19, 1967, Stamford, Connecticut

The American Humby line starts with Arthur Charles, an Englishman who emigrated sometime after 1901 and settled in Brooklyn. He appears in England's 1891 and 1901 censuses as a boy, registered for both the WWI and WWII drafts as Arthur Charles Humby, and was naturalized in New York.

In 1940 he was 54 and living at 201 Bergen Street, Brooklyn, with his wife Julia, daughter Kathleen, son Arthur Jr. and a lodger. He outlived Julia by 25 years and died in Stamford in 1967.

Still to find: his exact birthplace in England, his parents, and the ship he arrived on.

Great-grandmother

Julia Hynes Humby

Born c. 1884, probably Ireland · Died October 25, 1942, Brooklyn

Julia's maiden name, Hynes, comes from her son's obituary. Hynes is an Irish surname most common in County Galway, and one family tree places her birth in Ireland, though no record confirms it yet. She was the mother of Kathleen (born about 1917) and Arthur John (born 1919), and died in Brooklyn at about 59, nearly three years before her son came home from the war and married.

Still to find: her marriage to Arthur Charles (likely Brooklyn or Manhattan, about 1915–1917), her immigration record and her parents.

Grandfather

Arthur John "Art" Humby

Born August 8, 1919, Brooklyn · Died May 13, 2012 · Buried with military honors, Duck River Cemetery, Old Lyme, CT

Art graduated from St. Augustine High School in Brooklyn and, with honors, from Notre Dame. He enlisted in the Air Corps in June 1941, earned his pilot's wings in January 1942, and became an aircraft commander flying photo-reconnaissance B-29s over Japan, Korea, Formosa, eastern China and Manchuria.

The walk-out, February–April 1945

On February 2, 1945, Art's F-13, the Brooklyn Bessie IV, lost an engine to flak over Port Arthur, Manchuria. Rather than ditch in the Yellow Sea, he turned for land. When the loose propeller set the wing on fire, he ordered the bail-out three times and jumped last, over Japanese-occupied northern China near Pinggu, about 50 miles from Beijing.

Chinese guerrillas found the crew, hid them and guided them roughly 1,000 miles over about 75 days, mostly at night and through Japanese lines. They waited three weeks for a rescue plane that never came, slipped under a railroad bridge within sight of a Japanese blockhouse, and crossed the Yellow River into free China on April 12. On April 17 they reached Yenan, and two days later Art flew out on the first plane. He skipped a planned banquet with Mao Tse-tung, which he later said he regretted.

A squadron colleague wrote that Art brought his entire crew of 11 back safely. Army records list him as "evaded," not captured.

Read Art's diary of the walk-out →

Three months after the walk-out, on July 10, 1945, he married 1st Lt. Bette O'Connell at the Cathedral of St. Joseph in Hartford. After the war he sold real estate in Stamford and ran Humby-O'Connell Realty, retired from the Air Force Reserve as a Lieutenant Colonel in 1967, and retired to Old Lyme with Bette in 1971. They were married 60 years and had five children: Patricia, Betsy, Jeannie, Arthur "Rusty" Humby and Joseph.

Grandmother

Bette (O'Connell) Humby

Born April 13, 1917, Bristol, Connecticut · Died April 17, 2006, North Branford

Elizabeth M. "Bette" O'Connell was the daughter of Patrick J. O'Connell and Elizabeth Doran. She was a 1st Lieutenant herself when she married Art in 1945. A woman with a lieutenant's commission then was most often an Army Nurse Corps nurse or a WAC officer; her branch isn't confirmed yet. The cathedral where they married burned on New Year's Eve 1956 and was rebuilt in 1962.

Still to find: her branch and role in the war.

Son of Art and Bette

Arthur "Rusty" Humby

Born September 20, 1953 · Died July 14, 2021

Rusty was one of Art and Bette's five children. He married Karen, Mary and Duke Donahue's daughter, bringing the Humby and Donahue families together.

Read Rusty's tribute →

The Donahue side

Brown-haired warrior

The Donahue side joined the Humbys when Karen married Arthur "Rusty" Humby.

Donahue comes from the Gaelic Ó Donnchadha, "descendant of Donnchadh," from donn (brown-haired, or chieftain) and cath (battle).

Spoken Irish, it sounds closer to "DUN-uh-khuh," with a throaty "kh" as in Scottish "loch." English had no "kh" sound, so clerks in the 1600s–1800s wrote it as "h" or "gh" and spelled the rest by English habits, giving Donoghue, Donohue and Donahue. People then started pronouncing the spelling.

Ernest J. Lambertc. 1890–1929 · WWI engineer
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Agnes Cannonm. 1922
Patrick DonahueNew York City
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Rose Brady
Mary Lambert "Nana"1923–2019
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Donald T. "Duke" Donahue1925–2013 · WWII
Karenmarried Rusty Humby
Donald T. Donahue Jr.d. 2009
Paul A. Donahued. 2011

Great-grandfather

Ernest J. Lambert

Born c. 1890 · Died October 12, 1929, Danbury, Connecticut, age 39

Ernest served in Company B, 5th U.S. Engineers, 7th Division, in World War I. The regiment landed at Brest, France, in August 1918 and took over the Puvenelle Sector that October, where the engineers dug trenches, strung wire and built shelters under artillery fire. They sailed home on the USS George Washington in February 1919. His WWI diary is still in the family.

He married Agnes Cannon in Stamford on June 5, 1922, and their daughter Mary was born the next April. He died in 1929, when Mary was six. Family story says it was a car crash; that hasn't been confirmed yet. He appears to be buried in the Cannon family plot.

Six family photos of Ernest, from about 1915 to the 1920s, will go here: at the wheel of a studio prop car, with Agnes by a window and in winter coats, holding baby Mary in her christening gown, and on a bench at what is likely Roton Point Amusement Park in Rowayton.

Still to find: his birth date and birthplace, the cemetery, and the cause of death.

Great-grandmother

Agnes (Cannon) Lambert

Married June 5, 1922, Stamford

Agnes was very likely the daughter of John Cannon (1861–1912) and his wife Julia (died 1930), and the sister of Delia Cannon Ferris, since Ernest is buried right beside them. If the stones' dates are deaths, Agnes lost her father in 1912, her sister 19 days after her own wedding, her husband in 1929 and her mother in 1930. No remarriage has turned up; she raised Mary in Stamford.

Still to find: her birth date and place, and her death record.

Grandmother

Mary Lambert Donahue, "Nana"

Born April 18, 1923 · Died May 21, 2019, age 96 · Stamford, Connecticut

Mary lived her whole life in Stamford. She went to St. John's School and Sacred Heart Academy, worked as a Bell Telephone switchboard operator during World War II, then in sales at Natelson's men's clothing store, and later as switchboard operator at Union Trust Company.

She married Donald "Duke" Donahue on November 8, 1947, and they were married 66 years. They had three children: Karen, who married Art and Bette's son Rusty and joined the Donahue and Humby families, and Donald Jr. and Paul, who both died before her.

Grandfather

Donald T. "Duke" Donahue Sr.

Born August 4, 1925, New York City · Died June 21, 2013, Stamford, age 87 · Buried Queen of Peace Cemetery, Stamford

Duke was the son of Patrick and Rose (Brady) Donahue. He played baseball, basketball and football at Darien High School and graduated in 1943, the summer he turned 18.

World War II, 1943–1946

Duke served in the U.S. Army and rose to Technical Sergeant with the 76th Field Hospital, attached to the 77th Infantry Division, the "Statue of Liberty" division. He served in the Philippines, on Okinawa and in the occupation of Japan.

A field hospital set up close behind the front to treat wounded men too badly hurt to survive the trip to the rear. On Okinawa in the spring of 1945, the 77th fought some of the heaviest battles of the Pacific war, including Ie Shima, where war correspondent Ernie Pyle was killed, and the push to Shuri. An Army photo from June 6, 1945, shows the 76th Field Hospital there: rows of ward tents and wooden buildings on muddy, cleared ground.

See the 76th Field Hospital on Okinawa (National Library of Medicine) →

After the war he worked for Stamford Dressed Beef Company, Southern New England Telephone and the law firm Robinson & Cole. He was Grand Knight of the Knights of Columbus St. Augustine Council #41, chaired the Stamford chapter of the American Red Cross for five years, and was a lector and cantor at St. John's.